Seven Months

Tuesday, February 26, 2013

"Are you serious?  Seven months already!?"
Last week, we celebrated 7 months with this sweet angel baby!  Millie Janalee and I were in Gatlinburg, and we celebrated with a delicious Pancake Pantry breakfast! So sorry Russ couldn't enjoy that with us.  It's still so hard to believe it has been over half a year!  Seven months!

"Oh, this is gonna be fun!"
This last month has brought so much fun and JOY!  Millie Janalee's little personality just continues to shine...and make a joyful noise!  Ha!  I swear I have never met a happier baby.  I know all of your babies were just as perfect.  But, since this is my blog and all, I'll just say...she's pretty special.  And she knows it.  I wonder whose fault that is...


Millie Janalee is still wearing 6 month clothes for the most part.  We've snuck a couple of 9 month outfits in there, but I think they run small.  If it weren't for her length, she could probably wear 6 month clothes for a while longer.  And she's wearing size 3 diapers now.  Let me think of some fun milestones we have hit this past month.  We survived the "Christmas hangover," and she's rolling all over the place these days.  We never know where we will find her in her crib when we go to pick her up each morning.  She covers all sides and corners.  Haha!  I guess I can officially call her a full time sitter now.  Although, she doesn't get into the sitting position by herself.  And she will occasionally fall over.  Millie Janalee loves her toys...but not as much as a big crowd surrounding her or a big camera flash pointed toward her.  It cracks me up how much she loves being the center of attention.  God bless her kindergarten teacher!  We laughed last week that she would go to school and say, "Hey everybody!  I'm waving my arms.  Why aren't you all looking at me and cheering?!"  Haha!


Millie Janalee's latest obsession is waving.  I'm not sure if she actually understands she is saying "Hello" or "Goodbye," but she LOVES to wave her arms at people.  And at herself in the mirror.  Like wave them furiously.  Very fast.  All over the place.  Ha!  Her favorite activity is probably playing with her twin.  You know the one.  That twin that is always standing behind the mirror!  She just moves that little mouth as fast as it can go and waves her arms.  Once her excitement is contained enough to make actual sounds, she starts up with "Dadadadadada!  Ahhh!  Dada!"  Yep.  "Dada" was her first word.  This Mama worked so hard on "Mama."  But, alas, her little tongue found the "D" first.  The last week or so brought a fun new trick.  Millie Janalee loves to shake her head back and forth like she's saying, "No."  We joke that she's saying, "No!  No more squash please!"  There's no rhyme or reason to it.  She just decides she wants to shake it...and so she does.  She's making other sounds in combination with "Dada" also.  Today, it sounded exactly like she said, "Hey Daddy!"  Of course, Russ was on Cloud Nine!  I just follow up with...."Ma-ma.  Ma-ma."  To which she usually replies, "Dada!" with a huge gummy grin!


We are into everything!  Anything within reach.  Actually, anything that she might be able to stretch and reach too.  Cords, food, phones, remote control, toy, Farley, glasses, jewelry.  You name it.  She grabs it or tries very hard to reach it.  We aren't crawling yet, but she tries.  She will work those little legs until her little booty is in the air, and then she falls over to the side.  She just lays there on her side acting like she meant to roll over the whole time.  Ha!  She sleeps on her tummy now...like I mentioned in a previous post.  And we DID find the solution to the wet bed.  Huggies Snug and Dry did the trick!  No more waking up wet!  So far.


She's still eating good.  And I'm still making her baby food.  There was a brief moment where I had to feed her "fake apples, fake bananas, and fake sweet potatoes" during our trip.  It was only during the traveling days, and I nearly gagged at the look and smell of it!  I guess I've turned into a snobby baby food mom.  Sorry!  I couldn't get to the store fast enough to get some apples, bananas, squash, and carrots to make at the condo.  We are still trying new foods.  So far, Millie Janalee has tried bananas, apples, pears, carrots, sweet potatoes, green peas, squash, and this week we added plums.  She's not the biggest fan of plums yet.  Neither am I.  I have asparagus to add next.  I'm not sure how that will turn out.  Ha!  She eats a lot, in my opinion.  After she wakes up, I feed her a bottle.  She goes down for a nap around 10, and I feed her solids when she wakes up or around 12.  That's when she eats 2 ounces of oatmeal mixed with a cube or two of fruit and a cube of veggies.  She takes another bottle around 2 before her afternoon nap.  Then, around 5 or so, she eats supper.  That is usually 4 cubes of two different veggies and a cube of fruit.  If she's still hungry, we add more.  On vacation, she actually ate about 8.5 ounces of baby food for supper one night!  I thought she would explode!  Then, she takes a bedtime bottle around 8-8:30.  We actually had a checkup at the doctor today, and she weighed in at 18 pounds 6 ounces.   So, she's growing!  Probably still around 55%.  Perfect little lady!


 Millie Janalee does not feel in full control unless she is standing.  No. She doesn't stand on her own or pull up to a standing position.  But she will stand while you hold her hands or hold her thighs steady.  When she is in that standing position, she really shows out!  Maybe she will be a performer some day.  Standing, she's the most vocal and energetic little person!  She babbles and yells and squeals and smiles and makes breathy sounds all while waving her arms all over the place!  This week, she started a yelling sound with her fists balled up by her side.  Her little arms are stiff too.  It. Is. Hilarious!  The first time she did it, we were all sitting around talking.  Maybe she wanted more attention.  If so, she got it!  After that, all cameras and eyes were on her.  Ha!  So, we've added that little trick to our repertoire now.



She loves bending over, leaning her upper body over, and turning her head upside down.  It's so cute.  [I guess I think it's all cute.  Maybe you all are bored by now.  Ha!]  She especially loves to lean over and pop back up when someone is imitating her...say, at a restaurant.  Ha!  She sits in a high chair now, which gives her so many options during meals.  She gets everyone's attention with her cuteness and her quirks.  For example, she loves to get real close to a glass of any drink.  So we hold it up to her face.  Then, we may or may not shake the glass full of ice unexpectedly just to see her jump and hold both sides of her head with her little hands.  It's SO funny! If we had done that - which I'm not saying we did - there may have been a lady that met us in the bathroom and asked Millie Janalee if that glass of ice was torturing her.  Ha!


She listens very well!  She always had.  But, now that she isn't always in her carrier, it's so funny to watch.  She stares all waiters and waitresses down.  It's almost like she's waiting on them to take her order.  She stares at anyone who is talking the loudest.  During our vacation, we had a guide on a tram ride to the top of the mountain, and Millie Janalee stared at him the whole time.  I just know she's soaking up all this knowledge in her noggin for later use.  Maybe she'll be a trivia expert like her Daddy.


We have really gotten into a solid routine lately too.  She's always had somewhat of a routine, but now that she's older she has gotten into the groove of a near exact routine that can't often waiver.  Unless she's in the midst of people and activity.  Then, she is a TROOPER and works very hard to keep those little eyelids up.  She doesn't like to miss a thing!  We have three naps a day...two of those are 1-2 hours long.  On a good day, her 10:00 nap is close to or just at 2 hours.  On a bad day, it's 45 minutes.  But, she does get all three in.  Her last nap is the hardest to get in, because Daddy comes home about that time.  And nothing is as exciting as when Daddy comes home!  Her naps are usually (but not exactly) at 10, 2 or 3, and 5 or 6.  I usually take cues from her to see when it's time, but she's pretty much like clockwork.  Except that last nap.  I kinda slip that in.  It only takes her about 2 minutes once I start the nap routine for her to realize she is, in fact, sleepy.


We've never been big "rockers."  Most of her bottles have been given in our living room in our armchair.  So, she wasn't rocked all that much when she was little.  But, now that she's older, I cherish those rocking moments.  She almost always has to be "rocked" to sleep...or near sleep.  I don't mind.  It seriously takes less that 2 minutes for her to close her eyes.  Lots of times we play Pandora's Disney Radio while we rock.  If I don't have a rocking chair (like on vacation), I just pretend with a rocking motion.  Works every time.


I think we have begun the separation anxiety phase this month too.  It doesn't matter if it's just one other person in the room or ten.  If she sees one person that she's been playing with or watching leave the room, she will start to whine.  She likes everyone to be together and stay put.  She keeps a close eye on me and Russ too.  She knows when we enter.  And when we leave.  If I need to leave the room (even if the whole family is there), I wait until she's distracted.  If she doesn't see you leave, she's just fine! She has also gotten used to me putting her to sleep and makes it difficult for others to attempt.  I still made my mom do it one night on vacation, because I want Millie Janalee to be okay with others putting her to sleep.  Especially since she will have babysitters here and there.  But, I must admit, it makes my heart smile to know she likes her Mama to cradle her nearly 20 pound body and rock that heavy breathing baby to sleep.  Yep.  My heart smiles!


My heart has been smiling for the past seven months of my life.  It smiles from the moment I hear that sweet baby sound on the monitor until the moment I fall asleep glancing at a sleeping babe on the same monitor.  Who knew that such a little person could bring so much happiness?!  Who knew that I could love this little girl so much and still have more love to give each day?   My heart aches at how fast time is flying by, but it is smiling and sqealing at how much fun each stage is!  Each stage has been my favorite so far.  I'm not lying.  It's true.  I can't pick a favorite.  I love being Millie Janalee's mama.  I always knew I wanted to be a mama!  I'm not the perfect mama.  Not even close.  But, I know this is what I was made for!


I was made to be Millie Janalee's mama.  And a mother to anyone else God places in our family.  It's the most fun, most joyful, most exciting, most gratifying, most wonderful, most overwhelming responsibility!  From morning bottle to public blowout diapers. [Now that's a whole other post entirely!]


Happy Seven Months, baby girl!
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Party Over Here...Party Over There

Wednesday, February 20, 2013


Well.  It has happened.  My young-looking hubby has turned the corner to full out adult!  We celebrated Russ's 31st birthday last weekend with both sides of our family and, of course, with our little Party of Three as well!  Since Millie Janalee and I were leaving for Gatlinburg, I asked Russ what he wanted to do for his birthday weekend.  If you remember last year, he didn't get to choose anything.  It was all a surprise!  Haha!  He decided we could travel to our hometown and celebrate his birthday with our families.  He wanted to cookout with my side of the family on Friday night, so Kristin and Lee graciously hosted a big birthday bash.

Russ and Lee
Actually, Kristin had already offered to host a cookout for his birthday.  So when Russ told me that's what he wanted to do, it was perfectly planned.  Dustin and Sheila came in town to celebrate with us, and Dustin allowed us to grill his deer meat to make burgers.  They were divine!  Dustin is a great griller, and Kristin is a great cook!  Lee is great on the Green Egg too!

She She and Millie Janalee
We spent Russ's birthday much like we spent my birthday with my side of the family...all huddled around and playing with Millie Janalee.  Haha!  Dustin and Sheila are keeping Millie Janalee for the weekend pretty soon, so they got some good snuggle and playtime in while we were in town.  Millie Janalee loves her Uncie Bucket and She She!

Uncie Bucket and Millie Janalee
It was an afternoon and night filled with visiting, laughing, and making fun of each other.  Just a normal day in the fam!  Ha!  Russ enjoyed a little down time with his in-laws after such a busy work schedule lately.  I really can't remember the last day he's had completely off since Christmas.  I'm not complaining, but I do feel bad that Millie Janalee and I get to do so many fun things without him.  And we miss him on normal days at home too.

Russ, Lee, and Dustin
So I was glad he was able to relax and have a good time full of laughter.  There was one other person who got some good relaxing in too...

Susu and Sleeping Beauty
My family did a great job making Russ's birthday a real birthday party!  The delicious Oreo ice cream cake with the big 3-1 candles were perfect.

Until the 3 broke! Haha!  Only in our family.  So, Kristin laid them nicely on top of the cake for a picture...because she knows me so well.  Ha!  So I took my "birthday cake photo opp."


We giggled under our breath as we brought the cake over to Russ when we sang the traditional "Happy Birthday" song because we lit the "1" candle for the old man.  Ha!  He doesn't even flinch anymore.  He and Lee have gotten used to the Smith family charade.

Happy Birthday to you!
Making a wish
Letting Russ cut the cake.  Hard as a rock ice cream cake!  Haha!
No birthday party is complete without birthday gifts.  No matter how old!  Millie Janalee and I gave Russ a very well thought out birthday card.  Ha!  The rest of my family certainly picked up our slack.  Russ was so excited about opening his gifts.  Like a little kid at a birthday party.

Russ and his gifts
Thank you, Dustin and Sheila!
Kristin and Lee know Russ's style!
So happy!
Mama and Daddy gave Russ the Nisolos he's been eyeing since Dustin and Daddy got some from Santa.
It was a most enjoyable evening for the birthday boy and his family!  What a great ending to his 31 years of life!  Millie Janalee has certainly given this old man and his young wife a new chapter full of much joy this year!

Our little family on Russ's 31st birthday!  Sorry about my look...I was a tired Mama.
Although that sweet family picture looks so simple and perfectly posed in a quaint little family way.  You should have seen what we were seeing.  In fact, I thought of you all and took a little picture of it myself.  You just really must see what it takes for this little Party of Three to have a family picture taken.


It's all about Millie Janalee.  This is what it takes to get that girl to smile at a camera when Mama and Daddy aren't behind it.  Take a look for yourself...

Millie Janalee's paparazzi team
Russ, me, and Millie Janalee spent the rest of the weekend with his side of the family.  Saturday morning, I woke up early to pick up a few things at Walmart for our Gatlinburg trip and grabbed some balloons for a little fun birthday effect.  By the way, that makes TWICE in one week I ventured to Walmart.  I never go to Walmart.  Like, I seriously have NO idea when the last time I had been before last week.  Am I the only one who hates going to Walmart???  I'd much rather run into Walgreens, Target, or Kroger.


We spent a leisurely afternoon with Millie Janalee and Russ's parents.  Jimmy's kids were in town, and they always love spending time with Millie Janalee.  So, we pretty much just played all day!  Russ took Sam (and I think picked up his dad after awhile) to the pawn shop.  He's been looking for a gun.  In addition to what he already has.  Boys!

When Roan got in town with all of her kitchen and Olivia's closet loaded in Jimmy's truck, Russ and I got a little busy.  We helped Jimmy with Olivia's senior pictures.  Russ and Jimmy took some beautiful pictures of Olivia and I helped with posing and hair duty.  We had a great time, laughed a lot, and froze our tails off.  But, I can't wait until Roan shares some of the sneak peeks on her blog.  They are so pretty!  Of course, they had a gorgeous subject!  When Russ and I started dating, Olivia was probably 5 years old.  I can't believe she is already a senior!  I love what Roan said on her blog today!  The days are long, but the years are short!  I'm soaking in every second with my baby girl more now than ever...if that's even possible.

Uncle Jeff, Millie Janalee, and Aunt Jenny
Saturday night, the rest of Russ's family joined us for a celebration birthday supper.  Jenny and Jeff made a b-line to Millie Janalee for a little playtime.  The rest of us snacked as Russ manned the grill grilling burgers, and Roan put on the apron to cook her veggie burgers.  I heard they were delicious!  The rest of us?  We visited, watched a movie, and enjoyed everyone's company.

Clay and Sam
Olivia and Julie
Me and Roan
After dinner, Jenny put the finishing touches on Russ's birthday cake that his mom made for him.  We sang "Happy Birthday" to the birthday boy again, and he blew out his candles.  I hope he made a good wish!

Yummy cake!
Making a wish.
The birthday boy and his cake!
After dinner, cake, and his delicious birthday gift from Jimmy's family...it was time for everyone to get their Valentine's candy from Granmomma and Pop.  Millie Janalee was particulary excited that her Daddy let her choose her own candy bag.  I'd say this little girl already has her Daddy wrapped around her little finger!

Daddy and Millie Janalee
Aunt Jenny helping Millie Janalee pick out her candy.
So proud!

Russ and I are blessed with such loving and close families!  Thank you to our families for helping make Russ's 31st birthday so special, relaxing, and fun!  You only turn 31 once after all.
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My Funny Valentine

Friday, February 15, 2013


Our little family had a "love"ly Valentine's Day!  I hope yours did too!  Millie Janalee and I started kicking the Heart Day off on Wednesday with a few hearts.  Every little girl loves heart sunglasses and hearts on her clothes!  Ha!  She was a good sport and showed me her love by having a fun-filled day full of laughs.  I love this sweet, funny girl!


Russ texted us on his way home asking to take his girls out for Valentine's a little early.  He was working last night, so we celebrated early.  In case you are wondering what a stay at home mom wears out to dinner for Valentine's Day, we have documentation.  Ha!  Hair in a ponytail and everything!  Oh well.  I had no desire to change...as long as Millie Janalee looked cute.  By the way, this is also the way my shopping trips are these days.  So long cute clothes for Mama.  It's all about her!  We enjoyed a delicious and fun dinner at Stix and sat at the hibachi grill.  Millie Janalee LOVES to watch the show...especially now that she sits in a high chair.  It is perfect for us!  Free entertainment while we eat.


Yesterday morning, I couldn't wait to get Millie Janalee dressed in her Valentine's Day attire and show her our Valentine surprise!  If you remember, Russ and I gave Millie Janalee a book, wipes, rice cereal, and a small toy for Christmas.  We knew she would get pa-lenty from everyone else, and she did.  But for some reason, I got a little excited about Valentine's and Easter coming up! 

Millie Janalee's first Valentine from Mama and Daddy
She was very excited about her Valentine!  All these pictures were taken before she even had her morning bottle.  One happy girl, I tell ya!  Always a morning person, and always a JOY to pick up from her crib!  I love how excited she was, and she couldn't wait to pull it all out!

Yay!  I love Valentine's Day!
All this is for ME???
Let me check this out.
 Russ woke up before both Millie Janalee and me.  He ran to Dunkin' Donuts to pick up some jelly-filled heart donuts.  He also made a stop by a second donut shop to pick up an eclair for me!  Yummo!  I had one of each, thank you very much!  Don't judge.


I woke up several times during the night for some reason, so during one of my wake ups I placed Russ's Valentine from Millie Janalee and me in the bathroom by the sink.  It actually worked out, because I had originally planned to have it there the night before so he could find it before work.  It turned out, he didn't go in to work until 5 that afternoon, so he stayed up later than I did.  Ha!  I still got it placed and ready before his secret trip to the donut shop.


The rest of our Valentine's Day was spent doing the normal things.  You know, I was trying to take advantage of every second Russ was there to do laundry, pack for myself and Millie Janalee, take a long hot shower, and catch up on blogging.  Mission accomplished!


Bottom line...we had a wonderful Valentine's Day!  And I think Millie Janalee enjoyed her first Heart Day too!  We sure love this girl!


My sweet, funny Valentine!
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Life Is Sweet

Thursday, February 14, 2013


That's how we feel about life right now.  Life is sweet.  This Valentine's Day feels different somehow.  I've been so excited about finding Millie Janalee the perfect Valentine and thinking about how sweet our little life is.  Full of LOVE!  I've been reminiscing about all the love Millie Janalee has had over the last six months.  (Actually, it's closer to 7 months now!  Wow!)  I've looked through old pictures and watched old videos with tears streaming down my face.  Because life just feels so sweet right now!


As I ponder on the love in my life, I find myself overwhelmed!  Overwhelmed with thanksgiving for all He has given me.  Far beyond anything I could ask or imagine.  And certainly far beyond anything I deserve.  Our wait didn't entitle us to answered prayers the way we thought they should be answered.  God blessed us with Millie Janalee because it was part of His plan for our story.  Our life.  I wish I could come up with a better word than "thankful" because it just doesn't seem like a good enough word. 


The love Russ and I feel in our life is extraordinary!  The deep love we feel from our families.  The love and support from our friends.  Even the love felt through our blog from many we don't even know.  The love we feel for Millie Janalee is indescribable!  And, as much as we love our sweet girl, we know that God's love for her is infinitely more.  How is that even possible?!  His love is perfect and unconditional.  I like to think that my love is perfect.  Then I look at what love is...

"Love is patient, love is kind.  It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud.  It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.  Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.  It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.  Love never fails..." 1 Corinthians 13:4-8


Then, I realize how imperfect my love can be at times.  I lose my patience.  I envy.  I can be proud.  I can be rude.  I can be selfish.  I can be easily angered.  I can keep record of wrongs.  I could go on and on, and I'm sure you could too.  But what is so wonderful, is how God's perfect love and mercy forgives my imperfections.  When I fail or fall, He is there to help me back up.  Nothing I can do can make Him stop loving me.  Nothing.  Yes, I mess up.  Millie Janalee will mess up some too.  But I will never ever ever stop loving her.  Nothing she could do will change my love for her.  And, if my love for her is nothing compared to God's love for us...then, I know that His love is unchanging and will never be lost.  He is my Father and I am His child.  He is preparing a place for me in Heaven.  This I know! 


Yes, Valentine's Day can be filled with roses and chocolates and mylar balloons for your significant other.  To me...Valentine's Day is so much more than a romantic date (...that I'm sure I won't be going on for Valentine's.  Ha!) and sweet love letters.  Valentine's Day is a celebration of the love we share for each other and the love our Father has for us.  What a SWEET feeling!  What a sweet life!


"Jesus loves me this I know,
For the Bible tells me so.
Little ones to Him belong,
They are weak, but He is strong.
Yes, Jesus loves me!
Yes, Jesus loves me!
Yes, Jesus loves me!
The Bible tells me so."

Now that is a good reason to celebrate, don't you think?


Happy Valentine's Day from our sweet family to yours!
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